AI companion decision profile · adult topics may apply
DearHim is currently listed as hybrid, adult optional. Its relationship options still need clearer documentation. A first-hand quality verdict has not been published yet.
The 30-second answer
DearHim documents browser access and an exact iPhone App Store listing for an AI-boyfriend product explicitly positioned for women and gay men who date men, with text chat, memory, images, voice messages, voice calls, and tiered monthly or annual plans. Android browser access is documented, but Android store distribution, iPhone implementation type, billing paths, broader cross-platform parity, representation breadth, and product quality remain unresolved.
Cost
$12.99 / month
Pro monthly; core plan; merchant claimed listing checked 2026-07-12.
Model DearHim subscription and usage costAccess
web, ios, and android access is documented. Delivery method, price, features, and content rules can still differ by surface.
Check DearHim by deviceA source-checked decision profile. It is useful for comparing documented facts, but it is not yet a scored or longitudinally tested review. How evidence labels work
Starts with DearHim and Kindroid. You can change either product; no winner or score is assigned.
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Documentation is useful planning evidence—not proof that a workflow succeeds.
These are source-linked documentation states, not proof that a workflow completed successfully. Check again immediately before purchase.
Check DearHim account controlsNext decision
No reviewed external product link is active yet. Model the likely cost first, then compare a close alternative before deciding whether this product deserves a closer look.
Any future external link must be clearly labeled and pass destination, merchant, disclosure, and publication review first.
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How we know
The decision above uses dated documentation and keeps public reports, first-hand checks, and official claims separate. Expand any section to inspect the scope and sources.
Community synthesis has not been added yet. We will not turn a handful of anecdotes into a consensus. This section will publish only after its source set, date range, selection method, disagreements, and sponsorship signals are recorded.
No first-hand result is published for this product yet. That limits claims about conversational quality, memory, persona stability, checkout totals, and whether account workflows actually succeed; it does not erase the usefulness of current price and policy documentation.
The decision summary above is intentionally simple. Inspect each current value, source, check date, and unresolved conflict below. Product and app-store destinations remain text-only until their outbound destinations pass a separate review.
| Decision factor | Current value | Evidence state | Freshness | Checked | Claim support |
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| Product model | Hybrid, adult optional | editorial inference | current |
Editorial interpretation of the cited public material; not a hands-on finding. | |
| Relationship modes | romance; adult roleplay | editorial inference | current |
Romance is explicit; adult roleplay is an editorial normalization of optional intimate Pillow Talk and the terms' optional adult companion content. No separate general-purpose roleplay mode is established. | |
| Companion genders | men | merchant claimed | current |
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| Trans representation | Unknown | needs verification | unresolved |
The reviewed homepage documents male companion inventory for women and gay men who date men but does not establish a distinct trans companion option or representation parity. | |
| Audience support | gay | merchant claimed | current |
The current official homepage explicitly says the product is built for women and gay men who date men; quality and parity remain untested. | |
| Platforms | web; ios; android | merchant claimed | current |
Official help documents the mobile-responsive browser product across modern desktop and phone browsers. That page still says an iOS app is coming soon, while the identity-linked US App Store listing records a live release on 2026-07-08; the newer dated store record controls current iOS availability, and the mismatch remains a freshness warning. The help page says an Android app remains in development. | |
| Platform differences | web: available; delivery browser (unknown); ios: available; delivery browser, native app store (unknown); android: available; delivery browser (unknown) | merchant claimed | current |
DearHim documents browser delivery and has a dated iOS App Store listing, although the help page still says iOS is coming soon. The listing does not resolve native-versus-wrapper implementation. Feature, content-policy, billing, account, and cross-device parity remain untested, and no Android app-store release is established. Apple's 17+ content label and the terms' 18+ service requirement are different constructs and are not encoded as a platform-parity difference. | |
| Listed features | text chat; memory; image generation; voice messages; voice calls | merchant claimed | current |
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| Privacy & account operations | privacy policy: documented; data export: support assisted; billing path: unknown; cancellation: self service; refunds: case by case; account deletion: self service | merchant claimed | current |
Official policies document email-based portable-data export, settings-based cancellation and deletion, and generally nonrefundable fees with described exceptions. Terms describe Stripe while conditional store-purchase language and the new iOS app leave the actual billing path unresolved. The current privacy and terms pages contain unresolved placeholder fields, and no end-to-end outcome was tested. | |
| Pricing — Pro monthly | $12.99 per month (web; Global USD listing); 10 images per month; messages, voice minutes, video seconds unrecorded | merchant claimed | current |
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| Pricing — Pro annual | $99.00 per year (web; Global USD listing); 10 images per month; messages, voice minutes, video seconds unrecorded | editorial inference | current |
The $99.00 total is derived from the published $12.99 monthly price and $56.88 annual savings; it is not a checkout receipt. | |
| Pricing — Premium monthly | $24.99 per month (web; Global USD listing); 50 images, 30 voice minutes per month; messages, video seconds unrecorded | merchant claimed | current |
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| Pricing — Premium annual | $200.00 per year (web; Global USD listing); 50 images, 30 voice minutes per month; messages, video seconds unrecorded | editorial inference | current |
The $200.00 total is derived from the published $24.99 monthly price and $99.88 annual savings; the displayed $16.67 monthly equivalent is rounded, and this is not a checkout receipt. | |
| Pricing — VIP monthly | $49.99 per month (web; Global USD listing); 150 images, 40 voice minutes per month; messages, video seconds unrecorded | merchant claimed | current |
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| Pricing — VIP annual | $399.00 per year (web; Global USD listing); 150 images, 40 voice minutes per month; messages, video seconds unrecorded | editorial inference | current |
The $399.00 total is derived from the published $49.99 monthly price and $200.88 annual savings; it is not a checkout receipt. |
No material change event has been confirmed in the current record. We do not infer a change from marketing copy alone.
Every other eligible source for this profile is cited in the claim ledger or public-experience dossier.