AI companion decision profile · adult topics may apply
DearHim is currently listed as hybrid, adult optional. Its relationship options still need clearer documentation. A first-hand quality verdict has not been published yet.
The 30-second answer
DearHim documents browser access and an exact iPhone App Store listing for an AI-boyfriend product explicitly positioned for women and gay men who date men, with text chat, memory, images, voice messages, voice calls, and tiered monthly or annual plans. Android browser access is documented, but Android store distribution, iPhone implementation type, billing paths, broader cross-platform parity, representation breadth, and product quality remain unresolved.
Cost
$12.99 / month
Pro monthly; core plan; merchant claimed listing checked 2026-07-12.
Model DearHim subscription and usage costAccess
web, ios, and android access is documented. Delivery method, price, features, and content rules can still differ by surface.
Check DearHim by deviceA source-checked decision profile. It is useful for comparing documented facts, but it is not yet a scored or longitudinally tested review. How evidence labels work
Starts with DearHim and Kindroid. You can change either product; no winner or score is assigned.
Before you subscribe
Documentation is useful planning evidence—not proof that a workflow succeeds.
These are source-linked documentation states, not proof that a workflow completed successfully. Check again immediately before purchase.
Check DearHim account controlsNext decision
No reviewed external product link is active yet. Model the likely cost first, then compare a close alternative before deciding whether this product deserves a closer look.
Any future external link must be clearly labeled and pass destination, merchant, disclosure, and publication review first.
DearHim purchase preflight · free access and seller identity unresolved
DearHim documents male companions for women and gay men who date men. It also publishes a free-forever claim that conflicts with Help's limited-trial description, and its website operator is not publicly reconciled with Apple's seller and artist names. Resolve those boundaries on the exact surface you will use before treating a listed plan as your offer.
Pro
$99.00 derived annual total
The annual figure is editorial arithmetic from publisher copy—not a checkout receipt, savings verdict, or cross-channel price.
Premium
$200.00 derived annual total
The annual figure is editorial arithmetic from publisher copy—not a checkout receipt, savings verdict, or cross-channel price.
VIP
$399.00 derived annual total
The annual figure is editorial arithmetic from publisher copy—not a checkout receipt, savings verdict, or cross-channel price.
DearHim documents male companions and explicitly positions the service for women and gay men who date men. That does not establish trans or nonbinary companion inventory, broader audience parity, or experience quality.
The homepage says free forever with five companion messages per day, while Help describes a limited trial requiring a subscription afterward. Treat the duration, allowance, card requirement, conversion, and end condition as unresolved until the live account flow states them together.
Website policies name DearHim, Inc.; Apple displays BLAXI, INC and DRYVRS. The listing links to dearhim.ai, but the corporate relationship is not documented. Record the seller and charge descriptor shown on the surface where you pay.
The monthly amounts are publisher listings and the annual totals below are editorial arithmetic. Confirm total due now, cadence, renewal, allowances, currency, tax, refund terms, and channel-specific entitlements at checkout.
Current policies describe settings-based cancellation and deletion, email-based portable-data export, and case-by-case refunds. Billing remains unresolved after the iOS launch, policy placeholders remain, and no workflow or outcome was tested.
What this does not resolve: No account, checkout, free-access duration, entitlement, feature parity, billing, cancellation, export, deletion, refund, or support outcome was tested by this publication. Browser and iPhone distribution do not establish native implementation, Android store distribution, or browser-to-iPhone feature, policy, billing, and account-operation parity. The listed prices and derived annual totals do not establish checkout, savings, tax, renewal, promotion, add-on, allowance, geography, or channel parity. Product inclusion does not establish relationship quality, representation parity, privacy or safety quality, or value.
This checklist is bound to 7 current canonical editorial source records. It adds no community sentiment, recommendation, winner, purchase link, or claim that an account or checkout workflow was completed.
Before you pay
How we know
The decision above uses dated documentation and keeps public reports, first-hand checks, and official claims separate. Expand any section to inspect the scope and sources.
Community synthesis has not been added yet. We will not turn a handful of anecdotes into a consensus. This section will publish only after its source set, date range, selection method, disagreements, and sponsorship signals are recorded.
No first-hand result is published for this product yet. That limits claims about conversational quality, memory, persona stability, checkout totals, and whether account workflows actually succeed; it does not erase the usefulness of current price and policy documentation.
The decision summary above is intentionally simple. Inspect each current value, source, check date, and unresolved conflict below. Product and app-store destinations remain text-only until their outbound destinations pass a separate review.
| Decision factor | Current value | Evidence state | Freshness | Checked | Claim support |
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| Product model | Hybrid, adult optional | editorial inference | due soon |
Editorial interpretation of the cited public material; not a hands-on finding. | |
| Relationship modes | romance; adult roleplay | editorial inference | due soon |
Romance is explicit; adult roleplay is an editorial normalization of optional intimate Pillow Talk and the terms' optional adult companion content. No separate general-purpose roleplay mode is established. | |
| Companion genders | men | merchant claimed | due soon |
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| Trans representation | Unknown | needs verification | unresolved |
The reviewed homepage documents male companion inventory for women and gay men who date men but does not establish a distinct trans companion option or representation parity. | |
| Audience support | gay | merchant claimed | due soon |
The current official homepage explicitly says the product is built for women and gay men who date men; quality and parity remain untested. | |
| Platforms | web; ios; android | merchant claimed | due soon |
Official help documents the mobile-responsive browser product across modern desktop and phone browsers. That page still says an iOS app is coming soon, while the identity-linked US App Store listing records a live release on 2026-07-08; the newer dated store record controls current iOS availability, and the mismatch remains a freshness warning. The help page says an Android app remains in development. | |
| Platform differences | web: available; delivery browser (unknown); ios: available; delivery browser, native app store (unknown); android: available; delivery browser (unknown) | merchant claimed | due soon |
DearHim documents browser delivery and has a dated iOS App Store listing, although the help page still says iOS is coming soon. The listing does not resolve native-versus-wrapper implementation. Feature, content-policy, billing, account, and cross-device parity remain untested, and no Android app-store release is established. Apple's 17+ content label and the terms' 18+ service requirement are different constructs and are not encoded as a platform-parity difference. | |
| Listed features | text chat; memory; image generation; voice messages; voice calls | merchant claimed | due soon |
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| Privacy & account operations | privacy policy: documented; data export: support assisted; billing path: unknown; cancellation: self service; refunds: case by case; account deletion: self service | merchant claimed | current |
Official policies document email-based portable-data export, settings-based cancellation and deletion, and generally nonrefundable fees with described exceptions. Terms describe Stripe while conditional store-purchase language and the new iOS app leave the actual billing path unresolved. The current privacy and terms pages contain unresolved placeholder fields, and no end-to-end outcome was tested. | |
| Pricing — Pro monthly | $12.99 per month (web; Global USD listing); 10 images per month; messages, voice minutes, video seconds unrecorded | merchant claimed | due soon |
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| Pricing — Pro annual | $99.00 per year (web; Global USD listing); 10 images per month; messages, voice minutes, video seconds unrecorded | editorial inference | due soon |
The $99.00 total is derived from the published $12.99 monthly price and $56.88 annual savings; it is not a checkout receipt. | |
| Pricing — Premium monthly | $24.99 per month (web; Global USD listing); 50 images, 30 voice minutes per month; messages, video seconds unrecorded | merchant claimed | due soon |
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| Pricing — Premium annual | $200.00 per year (web; Global USD listing); 50 images, 30 voice minutes per month; messages, video seconds unrecorded | editorial inference | due soon |
The $200.00 total is derived from the published $24.99 monthly price and $99.88 annual savings; the displayed $16.67 monthly equivalent is rounded, and this is not a checkout receipt. | |
| Pricing — VIP monthly | $49.99 per month (web; Global USD listing); 150 images, 40 voice minutes per month; messages, video seconds unrecorded | merchant claimed | due soon |
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| Pricing — VIP annual | $399.00 per year (web; Global USD listing); 150 images, 40 voice minutes per month; messages, video seconds unrecorded | editorial inference | due soon |
The $399.00 total is derived from the published $49.99 monthly price and $200.88 annual savings; it is not a checkout receipt. |
No material change event has been confirmed in the current record. We do not infer a change from marketing copy alone.
Every other eligible source for this profile is cited in the claim ledger or public-experience dossier.